In the middle of the night I’ve been woken to screams of their fighting or to their threatening each other and right to the threshold of a fight – I’d be telling them to knock it off – sending each of them to their part of the house. There have been a couple of times that Pretty Princess has held Fluffy hostage to the inside of the litter pan and they both would be exchanging horrible screeches. My mind would like to revisit being needy sometimes. It’s an old well-established habit. The healthy part of me says, that way of being is yuck! I not only don’t have the desire to repeat that, it’s a challenge for me to be around neediness for very long. There have been moments where one part of me has argued with the other – in fact I was up against myself, much like Pretty Princess holding Fluffy hostage in do do. I used to beat myself up, condemning those aspects of myself that I saw as weak. In order to move beyond the aggressiveness and being needy I learned I would need to come to terms with accepting of all of me – the things I liked and those that I despised. It was and is the only way to experience inner peace. Now I’ve seen remarkable growth in Fluffy and Pretty Princess. For that matter, I’ve experienced a lot of growth too. Interesting how it appears right in front of me – in my cats. Oh the male cat – well, that’s another story. Wishing you insightful moments and a wonderful week. Smiles to you! Glenda Have you viewed "Pay It Forward"? Make your day by watching this great film. Have an even better day by putting the concept into practice. |
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