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    Her reaction has caused her a tremendous amount of pain - she's been unable to accept who she
    really is.

    As she gives herself permission to 'own' the negative the healing occurs; subsequently the 'hot button'
    no longer owns her.

    I asked her to share with me the gold - how we could reframe those parts she's disowned. She
    recognized she's had a drive to improve her life, i.e. get a degree, co-own and operate a business.

    She also recognized without ALL of her experiences she wouldn't be ALL of who she is today.

    Once we acknowledge all of the bad stuff along with the good, freedom occurs.

    Perhaps for you, it's as simple as 'owning' that you have similar behaviors/tendencies as those who
    you're around and be grateful for acknowledging it. If you're unable to then I suggest for you to consider
    you have internal work to do.

    Water seeks its own level - you are going to migrate to those you feel most comfortable with. We are
    an average of the 5 people we keep company with. This is good feedback. Time to take action! If you
    aren't comfortable with those with whom you've been keeping company, then add new events and
    friends to your life.

    Make sense? Comments are welcome!

    Smiles to you,
    Glenda


    Happy thoughts ... make a great day!

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